Random act of kindness day

Upon arriving to my dad’s house, I leafed through the local newspaper: the Waterloo Record, I came across this article for the return of random act of kindness day on November 13th. I thought that the idea was cool, and have long subscribed to the belief that if you do something nice (and unexpected) for someone, they are far more likely to pass it on. The little thing that I like to do, to counter what I feel is unfairness about the parking receipt system (versus parking meters, where money left on a meter could be enjoyed by the next person who pulls into the spot) is to give a ticket with time left on it to the next person I see pulling in as a leave a parking lot/space. Of course, since this only works if someone happens to time it just right, I have since taken to leaving the ticket sticking out of the machine so the next person sees it before putting money in. Anyway, let me tell you what got me on this topic:

Yesterday was errand upon errand day, preparing for the third (and final!) wedding ceremony Luc and I have planned, and our honeymoon. One of the top priorities was to get the bridesmaid’s dress finished. The first shop couldn’t help (at least not same day, which I desperately needed), so we headed on to the next one. After get caught detours and wrong turns we found a parking lot near where we thought the next shop was. We paid for a half hour of parking, and the receipt read that it was paid up to 11:11. Something just seemed lucky about that, but the superstitiousness that led to that thought led me to keep it to myself for fear of “breaking” it. (Silly, I know, but everybody has those superstitious moments). We found the shop, and sure enough they agreed to take care of it same day (even though at first they were talking about the next morning). We were back to the parking lot in no time, and as we walked up, I saw a woman about the buy a parking ticket. I ran up to ask if she wanted hours, but she was planning to stay for several hours, so my 20 minutes wasn’t about to help her greatly. She seemed to think that the idea was really cool though. So I stuck the ticket into the change slot of the machine, and we were off for our next errand.

Just after 4:30, we were back to pick up the dress. To my (very pleasant) surprise, I found a ticket with 20 minutes left on it stuck in the machine. I stuck it on the windshield, my mind churning in wonder at our luck, and wondering whether it was the same person. When we got back to the car (with still a good 15 minutes left on the ticket, I checked the time of purchase and put the ticket back in the machine). It wasn’t hers. I actually can’t decide whether it being hers, or it not being hers makes the story even better, but either way, I absolutely love that there are probably tons of other people out there that do that, although I’d never seen it before (actually, just a couple of weeks ago, someone gave Luc and I one with hours left on it in Mulhouse, so this was the second time, but you get the idea).

So while I think that random act of kindness day is great, why wait for November 13th? You never know how much impact a small gesture could have on someone else. I realize that getting my 5 minutes of parking free thanks to someone else (rather than having to pay the minimum half hour) is minor, but it just makes your day (good or bad) so much better.

Published in: on September 18, 2009 at 11:54 am  Leave a Comment  

Lagging and Blogging

As jet lag has me up just after 4:00am for the second day in a row, I thought I’d make use of it to post some bits and pieces I wrote on the plane, and a couple of other things, post-dating them to roughly when I wrote them during the travel on the 16th. Enjoy!

Published in: on September 18, 2009 at 11:34 am  Leave a Comment  

One step forward, two steps back, and one morale boost (Day 86)

So, I’m not 10 burpees away from finishing day 84, except that today is day 86. Some crazy working days have made staying on top of things extremely difficult, even though the 74 I’ve done today only started around 7:00 (so with the exception of the 21-hour day that was Monday – the result of a business trip for which flights were not quite as convenient as we would have liked – I should not be making excuses.

So that explains the one step forward, two steps back. What about the morale boost? A semi-anonymous reading left a comment on my last post to tell me that they are rooting for me, and that they themselves are (or at least were yesterday) on Day 23. So everybody with me: go G!

Published in: on June 11, 2009 at 10:42 pm  Leave a Comment  

When Mulhouse makes the international news, it’s never good

So I’ve “borrowed” the title here from an email I wrote more than two years ago when there was an unfortunate accident at the university here and part of the Faculty of Science was destroyed in an explosion.

Going further back in time, the Financial Times printed a less-than-complimentary article on Mulhouse when a couple of NHLers came to ride out the lock-out playing with the Mulhouse Scorpions.

While I imagine Mulhouse has been in the news since then, and hopefully for better things, I found it mildly amusing that a pages-long article on swine flu on MSNBC starts with a photo of a patient “showing symptoms of swine flu” being taken to a hospital in Mulhouse. At no point in the article do they actually talk about that particular case (I have no idea if swine flu has been ruled out), but it nonetheless serves as further proof that Mulhouse + international headline = bad news.

Published in: on April 30, 2009 at 9:15 pm  Leave a Comment  

Multicultural lame excuses

That wonderful old excuse “uh, I can’t; I have to wash my hair” appears to be best translated into French as “désolée, j’ai piscine” (literally: I’m going to the pool). Amusingly, a significant number of my colleagues actually do go swimming regularly, making it kind of a running joke. Anyway, my key learning in Japanese class today was just that: sumimasen chotto… puuru ga arimasu node (sorry, I’m going to the pool).

Published in: on April 8, 2009 at 10:12 pm  Leave a Comment  

God bless religious holidays

and as Robin Williams once said: “in the dictionary under redundant, it says ‘see redundant’”.

four-day week, four-day weekend, four-day week. (and hey, one company nearby takes it a step further: three-day week, five-day weekend, four-day week). I know; life’s rough.

Published in: on April 8, 2009 at 10:06 pm  Leave a Comment  

Why I’ll fly Swiss again (and again, and again…)

Months after receiving the invitation and planning to take advantage of it, the week before Lesli’s birthday party in London I was having a rough time at work, and didn’t think a weekend away was a good idea, but was also frustrated by the fact that I keep saying I want to get away now and then, and yet I was giving up on a perfect opportunity to get away, catch up with an old friend, and celebrate her 30th birthday no less.

The Wednesday before, Luc called to tell me he was booking the tickets. The flight times weren’t perfect (flight out at the crack of dawn Saturday morning, landing back at Mulhouse-Basel airport late Sunday night), but the price was surprisingly reasonable (tickets on Swiss were cheaper than those on Easyjet, undoubtedly because Easyjet raises their prices over time, while Luc had apparently started looking on the day that Swiss lowers it’s prices to the “last minute” deals to sell off the remaining seats before the weekend.

We found a decently priced hotel for Saturday night, walking distance (if a long walk) from Lesli’s.

It was great to hang out with Lesli, and meet some of her friends, and the birthday party was quite something: apparently Londoners really like their costume parties! The vast majority were indeed dressed up as television/movie characters from the 80s. Luc and I were  clearly the exception, but that didn’t prevent a great night :)

Sunday we got up late, and met with Lesli even later for a “proper” Sunday roast lunch in a nearby pub, before making our way comfortably to the airport with lots of time before our flight, our small shared suitcase full of Irn Bru, Dr Pepper and Dairymilk.

Check-in was uneventful, and we were early. From the lounge, as we waited for our flight to be assigned a gate,  we watched night fall, but the dark suddenly replaced by a flurry of white, as one of those odd sideways snow storms appeared in the window. The snow soon calmed, but the list of flights started showing delays and even some cancellations, and several plane loads of people were directed back to the main hall to be taken care of. Our flight was still on the board, and still a while away, so we weren’t yet worried. Besides, we rationalized, if ever our flight was cancelled, it was because ne deserved an extra day away. I actually almost started hoping for exactly that, and felt a bit guilty for it. Especially when the old adage “be careful what you wish for” materialized, and our flight was among the last cancelled, and we too were lining up downstairs to find out what was to happen next. After a very long wait, we were rebooked on the first flight in the morning, with (what was left of) the night in a hotel basically just across the street from the airport. Despite the proximity, it took over an hour for us to get into the shuttle, and we finally saw just how much snow had fallen: it was actually a beautiful winter night – the type I haven’t really seen since I left Canada.

More waiting to check into the hotel, and we found ourselves with a key to a suite, since there were no double rooms left. Meanwhile, one of my clients, who had been on the same flight as us, and with whom I had a meeting planned in Basel the following day, was carted off with his wife to another nearby hotel. After a few hours of sleep, we skipped breakfast and checked out, only to be told that the airport had cancelled the shuttle back, as no flights would be taking off any time soon. This turned out to be only partly true: a shuttle was running. In any case, we needed to get back to the airport to find out what would happen next, so we waited (while a few brave souls dragged their stuff through several inches of snow in a 10 or 15 minute walk that probably took them at least 2 or 3 times that).

Back at the airport (and back in line) we chatted with a few of the people around us, including a guy that was (ironically) stuck in the snow in London while trying desperately to get to Switzerland to go snowboarding. When we finally got to the front, we were rebooked on the first flight out…the next morning (more than 24 hours later). We were booked into another hotel, care of Swiss, and heard rumours that meals might even be covered. Rather than waiting for another shuttle, we found out that the new hotel was near the DLR (train line: just about the only part of the London train/subway system still running), so we asked which station, and got on our way, Luc and I conveniently armed with “Oyster cards”, which are touch cards that can be easily pre-loaded with cash, and make trips on the London system cheaper.

We were accompanied by a couple of older ladies who were also tired of waiting around, and felt better about getting moving. Unfortunately, the instructions we were given were wrong, and the relatively uncomfortable walk, in which one of the ladies slipped on the street and was promptly honked at by a cab for holding up traffic, we were on our way back to the DLR to find our actual hotel. It turned out to be relatively easy to find (once we had found someone who knew), and we were soon checked in, and changing out of wet socks…only to realize that we had forgotten to “touch out” at the train station, meaning that London could probably debit whatever they wanted of our Oyster cards. We headed back out, and hurried back so that I could get online and be reached by work. When we got back, we ran into one of the ladies, who told us that she had checked, and that Swiss was indeed paying for lunch and dinner (as it turns out it was actualy 20£ each per meal (and only if eaten in the hotel restaurant), but we had decided that even if there was a limit, we didn’t mind topping it up to take advantage of the excellent food (best carpaccio I have ever had, by a long shot). The work day was not easy, but the meals were amazing. When we found out that the people flying on British Airways got no allowance for food as we had, the meals tasted even better.

We got to bed early, because it was going to be another very early morning. At check out time, we again ran into one of the ladies, who told us that Swiss had called her to tell her to not to come to the airport, and that she was booked on the same flight the folllowing day (Wednesday). I was reaching my breaking point, though, and decided that I would rather go back to the airport then staying at the hotel waiting for someone to take care of us. On our way back to the DLR station, I hit my breaking point fairly literally, when I slipped on a patch of ice, and felt a large bruise form, just exactly where my purse happens to swing when I walk, on the side where I also usually carry my laptop back, and my climbing bag for that matter. Ugh.

Back at the airport, not all flights were cancelled, and the lady behind us in line told us that she had managed to get Swiss on the phone, and was booked on an afternoon flight, waiting in line only to get her new boarding pass printed. Out of pity, and since our 3 phones had been 2 for more than a day (we didn’t bring chargers, since we were only supposed to be in London for about 36 hours), she called again, and let us deal with them directly. I was told, much to my surprise, that we had already been rebooked on a flight out of Heathrow (we were at London City, at the other end of London) that night. I was happy to take it since, even with delays, we had plenty of time to get across the city, and it would save us sitting and waiting for hours on end (yet again). At the front of the line, though, we managed to get booked onto a British Airways flight to Zurich, with a promise that the train to Basel would be covered by Swiss, that was actually supposed to take off just a few minutes later.

With renewed hope, we went into the next line: the check in line, only to realize that we would never make it to the front in time. Fortunately, a staff member called those flying to Zurich into a much shorter line, but even with only 4 people in front of us, it took as nearly an hour to check in (every so often we were reassured that there were still de-icing the plane). Back in the lounge, we watched flights get cancelled once again, but ours stayed on the board. After a couple more hours, we were even assigned a gate! At the gate, there was more waiting, and the 8:05 flight finally took off around 2:00 (still 6 hours or so before the flight from Heathrow that we could have taken). We were one of the first planes off the ground, and you can not imagine my relief when we were finally in the air.

At Zurich, nobody seemed to know where we could get our train vouchers, and in fact the BA desk all but told us we were on our own. Knowing the train schedule from Zurich airport to Basel by heart (it’s a train that I take regularly for client meetings as well as for the airport now and then) I took the chance with the few minutes we had, to run to the Swiss desk in the departures area, while other passengers decided not to bother, and rather to get reimbursed later. The lady at the desk was a bit confused, since I’d actually arrived on a BA flight, but it was quickly sorted out, and we were running once again, this time to the train station conveniently located in the airport. We hopped in the train just a minute or two before it pulled out, and passed one of the surprised passengers who had given up on being taken care of as we found seats.

The arrival in Basel was uneventful: we bought bus tickets to the airport (so that we could get the car), and my 1/2 Swiss train card even gave us a small discount on that. It was after 5:00 by the time we got home, so I settled into the catch to attempt to catch up on some work before the 3-day work week I had left in front of me.

It was an extremely frustrating trip, I can’t possible say otherwise, but Swiss really really did their best. They (like most airlines) probably lost buckets of money due to something totally beyond their control, but they made sure that their passengers were treated as best they could, a step above BA, and miles above EasyJet and other low cost airlines. All in all, a pretty good deal for a pair of tickets that cost less than Easyjet at the time we bought them. This sort of thing doesn’t happen often, but when it does, with Swiss I know that we will be taken care.

That’s why I will fly Swiss  (and already have since: for another trip to London, no less, this past Wednesday – for which I managed to get home 3 hours earlier than planned, for additional cost, but less than if I had bought tickets on the earlier flight to begin with!) again, and again, and again.

THAT’s customer service.

Published in: on March 1, 2009 at 12:09 pm  Comments (3)  
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Giving thanks

I’m often asked if I miss Canada after 5 years, 9 months and 25 days in France. With all the proximity Facebook has given me with friends from the past and the present, seeing so many people talk about Thanksgiving this weekend has opened a void for me, reminding me of one of the things I missed most about Canada: stuffing. Just kidding; that one was for my family (and particularly my grandma, who apparently reminds everyone at every turkey dinner of how much I love stuffing: I do loves me stuffing!). But everything that goes with thanksgiving is definitely on my list of things I miss like crazy right now. So, what I am thankful for?

Family. With a special thanks to those of you that have been able to come see me in my adopted home.
Friends. Thanks to you (along with my family) for making me who I am, and bringing me to where I am, today.
Tradition. For bringing people together around a cooked turkey with all the fixings for a special time that I guess I took for granted until I was in a position to miss it so many times in a row.
Stuffing. Who’s kidding who; good bread stuffing brings me joy.

I’m torn between going into more detail or keeping it kind of open, but I guess I’ll leave things general. I believe (and hope) that those of you with the greatest impact on my path know who you are. If not, a blog post will never do you justice. I’ll do my best to let you know myself.

Thanks.

Published in: on October 12, 2008 at 3:59 pm  Leave a Comment  

Chapter 69 – A Canadian in … Canada (imagine that)

April 8, 2004 (cont’d)
We were arriving at the *new* Terminal 1 (ooooooooooo), sort of. The plane parked in the middle of airstrip nowhere, and we took a bus to the terminal. We were on the bus for half an hour and people (myself included) were getting pretty irritated. The customs area was big and new…and the waits as long as ever (actually it was the longest I’ve ever had to wait at customs anywhere). When I finally got to the front, the customs officer confirmed something I’d been thinking about: I’d filled the landing card out wrong…because I’m not a resident of Canada…weird. I finally got through, got my luggage, and met my dad.

The awe of getting back to *real* highways was much less this time: the novelty of transatlantic flights is already wearing off. In fact, it felt like I had never left. I watched some TV (to not go to bed too early) and got to bed around 4:00am (my brain’s time) or 10:00pm according to the clock. I didn’t have much in the way of jet lag (other than waking up around 6:00am for the first several days) which was cool.

April 9, 2004
My original plan had been to show up at my friend Lesli’s work, in Toronto, to surprise her (I was back a week earlier than I had originally planned) but it was Good Friday…and she was running errands somewhere in Kitchener. Plan B; tracking down my friend Tanya (she had moved in January, but I didn’t know exactly where) who didn’t even know I was going to be in the country at all. I showed up at her dad’s unannounced (just in case she was there) and he gave me her new address and buzz code. When I got there, I called up saying that I was delivering something for her (using her first name and her fiancé’s last name to get her thinking about something other than whether or not she recognized the voice), only to find out from someone in the elevator that the buzz code was not the apartment number, so I had no idea where to go. I went back to the front door and buzzed up again saying I’d got the apartment number wrong. Paul (Tanya’s fiancé who had answered this time) told me, but forget to buzz open the door, so I had to call a third time, hoping there was no camera that residents could use to see who was in the lobby. Luckily, they still fell for it (sort of; they were expecting another friend, and thought it might be her messing with them). I was definitely not expected though, so it did work.

A while later, the friend that they were expecting showed up, and stopped dead at the door. She looked vaguely familiar, but some of you will say that I say that everyone looks familiar. After a few minutes, we finally figured out that she and I had taken grade 12 English together in night school at a high school in Burlington…and the world shrinks again.

I ended up staying all afternoon / evening, and was making my way home in the Justy, who was acting very strangely; the brakes didn’t feel very strong at all…but then neither did the clutch…I figured that I just needed time to get used to them again; clutches and brakes feel different in most cars, and I hadn’t driven the Justy in 9 months (plus European-made cars seem to have waaaaaay better brakes…good thing too, since French people like to put off braking until they absolutely have too). I told my dad about it when I got home, and he said he’d take it for a drive in the morning to check it out…

Published in: on June 21, 2004 at 1:51 pm  Leave a Comment  
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